Are You in a Toxic Relationship or Just Dating a Human?

Welcome to another episode of The Twisted Truth, where we break down the things society loves to throw around as absolute truth. Today, we’re tackling a big one—toxic relationships.

Now, before you go diagnosing your best friend, your partner, and your boss as full-blown walking red flags, let’s take a step back. Are they truly toxic, or are they just flawed human beings? Better yet—could you be contributing to the so-called toxicity? I know, I know. No one wants to hear that, but let’s get real.

Twisting the Narrative: Are They Toxic or Just Annoying?

1. Emotional Manipulation or Just a Breather?

So, they hit you with the silent treatment. Maybe they're just fed up and need a moment. Not every quiet moment is psychological warfare. But when I do it? Oh yeah, it’s definitely strategic.

Sometimes, silence is the only way to keep the peace. And if you've ever tried telling someone they talk too much, you already know—it only makes them talk more. Instead of calling them out, slow your speech, hold your ground, and let them realize you still have the floor. Power move, right?

2. Constant Criticism or Tough Love?

Your friend calls your outfit questionable—are they emotionally abusive or just sick of your Crocs-and-socks combo?

Now, I’m all for constructive feedback, but let’s be honest—some people just love to criticize. If every conversation with them makes you feel like you just left a bad job interview, that might be toxic. But occasional tough love? That’s just life.

3. Gaslighting or a Bad Memory?

If they claim they never said something, is it gaslighting, or do they just have the memory of a goldfish?

I’ve had friends who conveniently “forget” entire conversations when it benefits them—that’s manipulation. But sometimes, people genuinely don’t remember, especially after one too many cocktails (or gummies—no judgment). Not every lapse in memory is a conspiracy.

4. Selfishness or Just Bad Etiquette?

They took the last slice of pizza. Toxic? Maybe.

But what about that one friend who never offers to buy a round of drinks? You bought the first round, and now you’re sitting there, waiting… watching… and they go up to the bar and only get a drink for themselves?! Oh, the AUDACITY.

Is that toxic or just inconsiderate? Either way, they might not be the kind of friend you want at happy hour.

5. Unpredictability or Just a Bad Day?

Some people are just moody. But when is it a bad day versus straight-up toxicity?

If their energy constantly drags you down, if you feel like you’re tiptoeing around them all the time, that’s a problem. But if they’re just having a rough day and say “I’m fine” when they’re clearly not—well, that’s just human nature.

When It’s Actually a Problem

Now, don’t get it twisted—real toxicity exists. If someone makes you feel small, worthless, or isolated from the people who love you, that’s your flashing neon “GET OUT” sign.

But some of the things we call toxic are just… life. Relationships aren’t about perfection; they’re about figuring out who you can tolerate for long periods of time without wanting to throw them out of a moving vehicle.

The Twisted Truth?

Not every bad trait is a dealbreaker, and not every difficult relationship is toxic. The real challenge is knowing when to walk away and when to grab a mirror. Because sometimes, the toxicity we see in others is really just a reflection of the things we need to work on ourselves.

So, what do you think? Are they truly toxic, or are they just annoying as hell? Drop a comment—I want to know.

And remember, if you are actually in a toxic situation, don’t ignore the warning signs. It’s okay to let people go. And if you need some tips on cutting toxic ties, I got you—stay tuned.

Until next time, trust yourself, love yourself, and believe in yourself. And remember—you’re already blessed.

What do you think? Need any tweaks?