The Twisted Truth About Applying to Grad School: Debunking Myths with an NYU Admissions Director

Welcome back to The Twisted Truth with Corey Wesley! Today, we’re tackling a topic that many of you have asked about: applying to grad school. Is it only for recent undergrads? Do you need a perfect GPA? Is it impossible to get in? To get the real scoop, I sat down with John, a seasoned director at NYU’s Steinhardt School of Education, who has spent decades reviewing applications.

If you're considering going back to school but feel intimidated by the process, this blog is for you. Let’s break down the biggest misconceptions about grad school admissions and get to the twisted truth.

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Myth #1: Grad School is Only for Recent Undergrads

Many people assume that grad school is just an extension of college, meant for students who go straight from undergrad. But as John explained, this isn’t true.

Some programs welcome students right out of college, while others prefer applicants with work experience. For example, if you’re switching careers—say, from entertainment to teaching—your past professional experience still counts. However, you’ll need to make a case for yourself in your application, showing how your previous experience connects to your new career goals.

Bottom line? Grad school is for anyone—recent grads, career changers, and working professionals.

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Myth #2: You Need a Perfect GPA and Test Scores

Another major fear: "I don't have a 4.0. Does that mean I won’t get in?"

John reassured us that grad schools look at more than just your GPA. Most schools follow a holistic application review process, meaning they evaluate the whole person—not just test scores. While academics matter, your application should also highlight:

Work experience

Letters of recommendation

Your statement of purpose (which, by the way, should tell a compelling story about why you want to go to grad school)

At NYU, for example, one PhD program receives 900 applications for only two spots. In cases like that, GPA alone won’t make or break your application—your personal statement and experience will.

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Myth #3: Grad School is Impossible to Get Into

Yes, some programs (especially PhDs and top-tier MBAs) are highly competitive, but many grad schools don’t have a strict limit on admissions. They accept qualified candidates who show potential, rather than capping the number of students.

What makes a strong application?

A clear, well-written statement of purpose (tailored to each program)

Relevant work or volunteer experience

Strong letters of recommendation that echo your story

Proof you can handle the academic workload

John also warned about using AI-generated personal statements—admissions officers can spot generic, uninspired essays. Instead, focus on crafting a personal, authentic story that ties all parts of your application together.

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Myth #4: Work Experience Doesn’t Matter

Think your previous jobs won’t help your grad school application? Think again.

John emphasized that many programs, especially professional degrees (education, healthcare, law), value real-world experience. Some even require specific coursework or experience before applying. For example, if you’re pursuing occupational therapy, you may need science prerequisites from undergrad.

Pro tip: If you're applying after years in the workforce, highlight how your job experience has prepared you for grad school and beyond.

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Myth #5: Online Degrees Don’t Hold Weight

In today's digital world, online grad programs are more respected than ever—but do your research.

John suggests looking at:

Accreditation (regional and program-specific)

The program format: Asynchronous (self-paced) vs. Synchronous (live virtual classes)

In-person requirements: Some online programs include short-term campus visits or clinical work

If a program is accredited and well-regarded, it can be just as valuable as an in-person degree.

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The Financial Side: Scholarships, Loans & Hidden Funding Opportunities

A big concern for most prospective students: How am I going to pay for this?

John revealed some often-overlooked funding options:

FAFSA (Federal Student Aid) – Many schools require this for scholarships

School-based scholarships – Some don’t require you to wait until you're admitted to apply

Competency-based credit – Some schools offer credit for real-world work experience

And while student loans are common, the key is to weigh the cost vs. the return on investment. A prestigious school may carry more name recognition, but a lower-cost, well-connected program could provide just as many career opportunities.

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Final Thoughts: Should You Reapply If You Get Denied?

What happens if you apply and don’t get in? Should you transfer from another school or keep trying for your dream program?

John says it depends. Some schools offer feedback, but many—like NYU—simply don’t have the capacity to do so. If you’re rejected, consider:

Applying to similar programs with slightly less competition

Gaining more work experience before reapplying

Improving weak areas of your application (statement of purpose, letters of recommendation, etc.)

And most importantly—don’t give up just because of one rejection. Grad school is a marathon, not a sprint.

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The Twisted Truth: Grad School is What You Make It

Going back to school can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. The key takeaways?
✔ Grad school isn’t just for recent undergrads—career changers are welcome
✔ Perfect grades aren’t required, but a strong, well-rounded application is
✔ Some programs are extremely competitive, but not all—find the right fit
✔ Work experience matters and can boost your application
✔ Online degrees can be just as valuable—but research them first
✔ Funding exists—apply early and explore all options

Most importantly, believe in yourself, love yourself, and trust yourself. As I always say—stay blessed, because you already are.

Thinking about grad school? Have questions? Drop them in the comments, and let’s keep the conversation going!

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Until next time,
Corey Wesley